- have nightmares or scary thoughts, either in general or about the way the loved one died,
- fixate on the circumstance of the person’s death,
- not want to talk about the death or anything (even happy memories) about the deceased person, and
- experience problems with “hyper arousal,” such as trouble sleeping, poor concentration, excessive irritability, or developing new fears.
Parents know their children and their behavior best. If any of these problems are causing concern, reach out for help right away.